Hot Sex Tips

Much as Tom Colicchio has perfected the art of cooking a steak to perfect medium- rare, you’ve mastered the basics of sex. You know where your G-spot is, your favorite sex toy is at the ready in your nightstand drawer, and you can engage in a heated debate with your girlfriends about the advantages of reverse cowgirl versus missionary. Now it’s time to kick things up a notch. We’ve got 80 brand- new toys, tricks, and techniques to take sex from ordinary to jalapeño hot.

 

We’ve come up with a list of lusty moves that promise a bit pleasure payoff!

Part 1: Back To Basics

Pop in earplugs.

It will enhance the sound of your breathing and block out the rest of the world so you can focus solely on your other four senses and enjoying one another’s bodies, says Claire Cavanah, co-author of Sex Toys 101.

Assert yourself.

“Women are traditionally more submissive, so switching to a more dominant role can break you out of a sex rut,” says Ian Kerner, author of She Comes First. “You don’t have to don leather and wield a whip; just doing something your partner doesn’t expect of you—like initiating sex as soon as he walks in the door—will make things hotter.

Make out more.

Take a trip back to junior high for an evening and restrict yourselves to 10 minutes of kissing and over-the-clothes touching only, says Leigh Anderson, author of Games for Grownups. “Keeping things PG for a set time revs you both up for a more adult encounter,” she says.

Lock eyes.

When aroused, your pupils will dilate, so you can track each other’s level of arousal, says Sharon Moalem, Ph.D., author of How Sex Works. It also creates a more intense connection during sex.

Get specific.

When you ask “Does this feel good?” your partner feels pressured to say “yes” to avoid killing the mood, says Steve Bodansky, co- author of The Instant Orgasm. But if you ask more detailed questions (faster or slower? To the right or le ?), they can give simple, one-word responses— making sex better than just “good.”

Turn on some tunes.

According to researchers at Massachusetts General Hospital, listening to your favorite music stimulates the same areas of the brain as sex, enhancing your euphoria during the act.

Go back to school.

Women who have graduate degrees or higher have more orgasms, according to a recent Australian survey.

Pick a fight.

Healthy debate can be a huge turn-on, says Yvonne K. Fulbright, Ph.D., WH sex advisor and the author of Touch Me There! A Hands-on Guide to Your Orgasmic Hot Spots. “When you argue, your body reacts as it would during sexual response—your muscles tense, heart rate increases, breathing gets heavier. Part of what makes the sex a erward so hot is not only the release of the body’s heightened state but this feeling that you’ve conquered your ‘opponent’ in some way.”

Nix the marathon.

A survey of sex therapists concluded that the optimal amount of time for sexual intercourse was 3 to 13 minutes—good news, considering the average Joe only lasts 7.8 minutes. So quit worrying about breaking a record, and spend more time on foreplay. You’ll both enjoy it.

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