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October 19, 2016 6 min read

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Choosing your first sex toy can be tough. Go on any sex toy site, and you’ll be greeted by thousands of weird and wonderful contraptions of self-pleasure. But where do you start?

I remember when I first started shopping for something to ‘spice things up’ – I was completely blown away with how much choice there was! It certainly made picking a starting point very difficult. So to make things easier for those tentatively taking their first steps towards purchasing a sex toy, I’ve compiled a short list of ‘must-haves’ – things that every budding sex toy collector should be stashing in their bedside cabinet. Although I warn you now, once you’ve started, you are going to need a bigger cabinet. Just saying…

The important thing to remember on choosing your first sex toy is that it is completely normal. Sex toys not only improve your solo experiences, but also when implemented correctly, can be a wonderful addition to the bedroom with your partner.

 

Sex toy guide

 

So let’s start off with one of the most important products that EVERYONE should have beside the bed…

 

Lubricant

The first thing really should be a good quality lube (and lots of it). Lube is probably the most vital piece of ‘kit’ in anyone’s toy box. I have bottles of the stuff. It’s useful for playing with toys, for sex, for masturbation, for massage… you can do SO much with lube, and for some things, it’s an absolute NECESSITY.

ID lubricant  Formulated from the highest quality ingredients, doctor recommended ID Glide Personal Lubricant is designed specifically to enhance the pleasure of intimacy. Clear, odorless and water-based, ID Glide is silky smooth, ultra long lasting and latex compatible.


Silicone Lubricants are designed to be longer lasting, silkier and don’t get sticky at all as they start to dry out. I prefer to use silicone lubricant during anal sex, as it lasts much longer. Not to be used with sex toys, unless they are made from steel or glass. Do not use with silicone toys as you could cause damage. Passion Premium Silicone Lubricant - 2 Oz Experience the best that lube has to offer with Passion Silicone Lubricant. Made to stay slick and smooth, you will love how easy toys will glide in and out. Passion Silicone Lubricant also works great when used on your own or with a partner. After you are done, the lube will easily clean up with soap and water. Lube comes in a spill proof bottle, making it great for on-the-go action, so lube up and get ready for some Passion! Stays slick and smooth for extended periods of time. Made in the USA

Butt Plug


A butt plug is a really good starting point for those who are looking to experiment with anal play. They can be used to help warm you up ready for anal sex, or can be worn during intercourse or masturbation to enhance sensations. When choosing a butt plug, make sure it has a sturdy, flared base to prevent unwanted travel, and plugs made from Silicone are going to be more comfortable and hygienic.

Butt Plug
Trinity Anal Trainer Set  So many couples these
  any couples these days are experimenting with anal play, but it can be extremely intimidating. While it can be a very pleasurable part of couple play, it can also be a very negative experience if done wrong. The Trinity Anal Trainer Set makes it easy to ease yourself into anal play.Since you get all three soft jelly rubber anal plugs you do not have to commit to one size when you buy it. As a beginner you can start out with the smallest piece and try it at your own pace while you are alone. You can then work your way up to the medium sized and then maybe on to the biggest if you feel like it. With the preparation and nervousness out of the way, you will be able to relax and have fun when you finally play with your partner. To maximize comfort, each plug is made from TPE.  They are all different sizes, allowing you to start small and work your way up.

Prostate Massager


As an extension to the butt plug, a prostate massager is an absolute must. The male G-spot is located about 3-4 inches inside the bottom and when stimulated, can lead to a truly mind-blowing hands-free orgasm. Of course, your mileage may vary, and it can take a lot of practice to achieve it – but these devices will certainly help you on your way.

Aneros Helix Prostate Massager The Helix is larger at the tip (1 1/16" versus 0.9" on the MGX). This item has an insertion length of 4 inches. The Helix also has a stockier base, larger tip and is more angled for extra vigorous stimulation. Use: Place the head into the anus (similar to a butt plug). Make sure that the curled arm (handle) is between the buttocks and the upturned arm touches the perineum. The item itself should be tilted forward. 

Cock Ring

A cock ring is a round, stretchy ring that you slip either around the base of the penis, or behind the testicles. The effect of this is that your erections are firmer, bigger and they help heighten sensitivity leading to increased pleasure. They can also be used to help maintain an erection as it restricts the blood flow back into the body. They are sold in both vibrating and non-vibrating varieties.

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Speed Snap Cock Ring Maintain a harder, stronger, and more sensitive erection when you wrap this snap-on cock ring around your cock and balls! Restrict blood flow by tightening this comfortable and attractive strap around your package, creating a bulging hard-on that will last through your most tantalizing endeavors. Solo or with a partner, you will love the enhanced sensation of every stroke, thrust, suck, and fuck! When you are ready to ejaculate, just release the snap to quickly and effective remove the cock ring. 
Cock Ring- Advanced Tantus offers three levels of cock ring pleasure.

Sizes:
  • The Beginner Cock Ring has a diameter of 2 inches and is softer, stretchable and more pliant than other rings making it easier to put on, remove, and more comfortable to wear.
  • The Intermediate Cock Ring is a little smaller with a diameter of 1-7/8 inches, delivering a tighter fit and therefore a more intense effect.
  • The Advanced Cock Ring is the smallest of the three rings with a diameter of 1 3/4 inches and providing the most intense effect.
Why Buy Tantus:
  • Tantus Silicone is the most reliable, safe, health-smart soft material used for toys. Tantus Silicone toys are made of 100 percent ultra-premium platinum quality silicone. They not only get home alive, but with a little care they can last a lifetime. You can be assured that a toy from Tantus Silicone is a toy that is safe to be used!

Tantus Silicone is hygienic. No open pores to harbor bacteria.
  • Tantus Silicone is hypoallergenic. It has no reaction to chemistry of the body, 100 percent silicone toys are completely inert. They do not alter pH balance, or cause a reaction to the body's natural chemistry.

Tantus Silicone is phthalate free.
  • Tantus Silicone is easy to clean. Silicone can be boiled or bleached; they're even dishwasher safe. We recommend antibacterial dishwashing soap. Our toys are completely safe up to 600 degrees fahrenheit.

Masturbator

Sometimes your hand gets a little bit boring – so spice things up with a masturbator. These are great fun to use solo, but they are also even more fun to use with a partner. Whether you take turns in using it, or you get then to use it on you (or vice versa) – and you don’t need to spend huge amounts of money on your first masturbator.

Vulcan Ripe Mouth Stroker Uncap Vulcan to release an explosive experience with a Ripe Mouth. Specially designed to feel like the real deal with refined touch, a realistic textured quality, and natural pleasure ridges. The pattern on the outside of the can indicates the texture within.The soft cup features a removable inner sleeve for easy cleanup. 

Anna Dual Ended Vaginal And Anal Love Stroker This double sided pussy and ass stroker has two sides and a tight, textured love tunnel for twice the fun! The realistic look and feel will make you feel like you are plunging your cock into the real thing! The easy grip outer shell is hard, which increases the feeling of tightness. It also helps you really pound the plush pussy or tight asshole, until you explode! The open tunnel makes clean up a snap, and the portable design lets you get off whenever you feel like it. 

Toy Care and Maintenance

toy cleanerAntibacterial Toy Cleaner at For The ClosetLastly, after all of that fun, you need something to keep your new purchases in tip-top shape. A good toy cleaner is a valuable addition to your toy box. Make sure you read the instructions/care advice for your sex toy to ensure that you clean it properly. You don’t want to damage your nice shiny new sex toy, do we?

Anti-Bacterial Toy Cleanercomes in a handy spray bottle and is perfect for wiping down your butt plugs and masturbators and everything in between. It’s important to make sure everything is thoroughly dry before storing away your sex toys as well. A renewer powder is also a good idea, for use with masturbators. Once clean and dry, give them a sprinkle with the powder and it will have them feeling silky and soft again in no time.

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Kathy
Kathy

September 18, 2016

Awesome article. I found if very useful, thanks for the tips!

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